Melanie Tan
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Location: Chinatown, Virtual
Days and Hours:
Friday 8:00am - 3:00pm (Virtual)
Saturday 9:00am - 2:00pm (Chinatown)
Sunday 9:00am - 1:00pm (Virtual)
Practicum ends May 2026.
Bio
Hi! I’m Melanie (she/her).
My goal as a therapist is to create a space where you don't have to pretend or carry yourself a certain way. You can show up with all your mess, all your questions, and all your wins, and we can sort through it together.
Before I got here, I had a whole other career as a graphic designer. Making that huge pivot taught me a lot about navigating change, taking risks, and figuring out what truly feels meaningful in life. That's a huge part of my approach now. I work from an existential lens with a touch of narrative therapy—all to say I believe we all have the power to make choices, find our own meaning, and edit our own story, even when life feels overwhelming or out of our control.
So, what can we talk about? Honestly, whatever is on your mind. But, it’s important to know that my work is centred around the core human experiences of relationship, intimacy, and identity. I’m particularly passionate about helping people with:
Relationships & Sex: I’m a sex-positive, kink-knowledgeable, and queer-affirming therapist, and I welcome all relationship structures (poly folk and ENM, you’re safe here!) We can tackle anything that’s challenging your sexual wellness—desire or libido issues, painful sex, trauma, and sexual shame.
Identity: All things gender and sexuality are on the table here. You’re safe to explore, question, and celebrate who you are.
Things not in the above two categories: Anxiety, depression, burnout, and complicated family dynamics are welcome here, too.
My own life experience is a huge part of why I'm so passionate about this work. As a bicultural person (Canadian/Singaporean), I get how complex it is to walk between different worlds. Living with chronic pain has taught me a ton about the mind-body connection. I'm also queer and demisexual, so I deeply understand the importance of having spaces where you don't have to explain your existence.
When I’m not doing therapy things, I’m probably nerding out over stationery and art (especially fountain pens and calligraphy), or crafting (cross stitch and sewing). Or I’m diving into another world—whether through Dungeons and Dragons, video games, or just curled up with my Kindle.
You can expect our sessions to be warm, curious, and real. If you think we might vibe, I'd love to hear from you.
Just so you know: I'm currently finishing my Master's in Counselling Psychology and working as a student therapist. This means I'm under the clinical supervision of a Registered Psychotherapist (so you’re in good hands!)
Image Description: Melanie is centered in the photo, sitting indoors and softly smiling at the camera. She has long, wavy blonde and black hair. She wears round glasses with decorative chains and a black top. The background consists of large windows and a blurred view of city buildings.
Melanie Tan
(she/her/hers)
Student Counsellor
In-Person and Virtual Sessions
Melaine is currently accepting new clients to her waitlist! Practicum begins in September.
Please email us at connect@collective-healing.ca to connect with Melanie for counselling services.