Daniel Oommen, RCC

Associate Counsellor
(them/their/theirs)

Virtual Sessions

Daniel is currently accepting new clients!

If you are interested in connecting with Daniel, please contact daniel@collective-healing.ca.


Hey there! I know how tough it can be to open up in therapy—sharing the tender or confusing parts of ourselves takes courage. Most of us want to feel seen and met with warmth, and that’s exactly what I aim to offer. I show up with compassion, authenticity, humour, and curiosity to create a space where all parts of you are welcome!

I’m a registered clinical counsellor and certified sexologist, and I work with folks navigating issues related to sex, relationships, identity, and trauma.

As a queer non-binary person of color, my work is rooted in intersectional feminist ideologies and practices. My approach is trauma-informed, sex-positive, and anti-oppressive—meaning this is a space where you can talk about the hard stuff without fear of judgment. I often work with people from the LGBTQIA2S+, BIPOC, and sex work communities.

Here are some issues I often support individuals and couples with:

  • Changes in sexual desire, exploring sexuality, kinks, or fetishes

  • Painful sex (dyspareunia, vaginismus, endometriosis, etc.), erectile difficulties or trouble reaching orgasm.

  • Sexual shame, out of control/compulsive sexual behaviours, anxiety, emotional regulation, and low self-esteem

  • Neurodivergent sexual experiences, and sex work affirming care

  • Changes in sexual experiences from transitions such as pregnancy/post-partum, gender-affirming surgery, or parenthood

  • Exploring gender, racial, or sexual identity, coming out, or queer sex

  • Relationship dynamics — including non-monogamy, intimacy challenges, infidelity, communication difficulties, or conflict

  • Complex trauma, PTSD, or adverse childhood experiences

In our work together, we’ll move at your pace—making space for your struggles, while building toward healing, confidence, and connection.

When I’m not in session, you can usually find me rolling at Jiu-Jitsu, out in nature, cooking something chaotic, vibing to R&B, or spending time with my friends!

I also want to acknowledge that I live and work on the unceded lands of the xʷməθkwəy̓əm (Musqueam), Skwxwú7mesh (Squamish), and səl̓ílwətaɬ (Tsleil-Waututh) Nations.


Daniel’s Rates

15 min Phone Consultation
No Cost

Individual Counselling

50 min
Sliding Scale: Closed/Full
Standard: $155
Generous: $160+

75 min
Sliding Scale: Closed/Full
Standard: $210
Generous: $215+

Relationship Counselling

50 min
Sliding Scale: Closed/Full
Standard: $200
Generous: $205+

75 min
Sliding Scale: Closed/Full
Standard: $250
Generous: $255+


Daniel’s Availability

Location: Virtual

Days and Hours:

  • Monday 12:00pm - 6:00pm (Virtual)

  • Tuesday 12:00pm - 6:00pm (Virtual)

  • Wednesday 12:00pm - 6:00pm (Virtual)

  • Thursday 12:00pm - 6:00pm (Virtual)


Approaches in Therapy

  • Trauma-informed 

  • Sex Therapy 

  • Sex-work Allied Care 

  • Intersectional Feminism 

  • Parts Work/Internal Family Systems-Informed 

  • EMDR 

  • Attachment Theory 

  • Developmental Model of Couples Therapy 

  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy for Couples

  • Somatic


Licensure & Degrees

  • Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), BC Association of Clinical Counsellors

  • Certified Sexologist #25047, American Board of Sexology

  • Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology, Adler University 

  • Bachelors of Science in Psychology, Heriot-Watt University


Selected Professional Training

  • The Sexually Competent Therapist (Foundations): Integrating Sex Therapy Into Your Practice - Diana Sadat, RCC, CST 

  • We're Just Too Busy: Sensate Focus for Couples - Linda Weiner, MSW, LCSW Purity culture & sexual wellbeing - David Carlson RCC 

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) for Trauma, Depression, Addiction & More: An intensive online course - Dr. Richard Schwartz & Dr. Frank Anderson 

  • Nurturing Trans Erotic Embodiments: Re-Visioning Sex Therapy for Every Body - Lucie Fielding LMHCA 

  • When sex hurts: Understanding and addressing sexual and pelvic pain concerns in therapy - Diana Sadat RCC, CST 

  • Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Trauma-Informed Stabilization Treatment Level 1 - Dr. Janina Fisher 

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Training - Alivia Maric Ph.d, & Eve Wilensky RCC 

  • Assessing Violence in Intimate relationships - Theresa Thomas RCC Gottman Couples Therapy Level 1, The Gottman Institute 

  • Developmental Approach to couples therapy - Sue Diamond RCC Trauma-Informed Care - Ciara Moran, RCC, CST 

  • Working towards anti-opression in counselling - Lusia Ospina RCC ATR LPC 

  • Working with Sex Workers - Angie Gunn, LCSW, CST; Raquel Savage, MS & Melissa Paulino, LMSW 

  • Exploring BDSM & Kink as a Healing Practice for Trauma Survivors - Rafaella Smith-Fiallo, LCSW 

  • Sex Worker Affirmative Therapy, Dr. Eric Sprankle 

  • Neurodivergence In The Bedroom - Taylor McConnachie RP, CST

Daniel Oommen
RCC

Image Description: Daniel stands smiling with their teeth in front of a lilac bush with vibrant green leaves. They are bald and have a full beard. They are wearing a bright yellow cardigan over a black shirt, accessorized with a gold necklace and rectangular glasses.